PARKS BROWN

A recurring topic of conversation is balancing the demands of life in 2018. Balance is another way to ask, “Am I living it right?” From the minute we start running to ball practice, cheer leading and music lessons, we join the rat race. The fast lane is different for everyone and it changes the older we get, but the need to balance everything remains the same. I played golf two weeks ago for the first time in forever. I was having a blast until I looked at the time. We had enjoyed an hour and forty minutes together and were teeing off on the 7th hole. When I learned our pace of play, I stopped having as much fun.

Asking for divine intervention in balancing life and time is near the top of too many prayer requests. “Help me balance my…everything!!” FOMO has become epidemic and the result is multitasking on steroids; and opioids for that matter. The attempt to balance our time is a control issue. At the core, control is a spiritual issue.

The Bible says “Our days may come to seventy years, or eighty, if our strength endures.” Psalm 90:10. At the pace most people are running that’s a very big IF. We try to balance our incessant wants and growing list of demands on our time. Anxiety arises because we were not meant to manage time on our own. We were designed to submit and let God direct how we use our time, where to spend it and what to do with it. If you don’t have a connection to the Holy Spirit, you’re on your own to balance life. Good luck. That’s why there are books, videos and college degrees on time management…and so much frustration.

So, does God know more about balancing and managing time? Proverbs is a book “for obtaining wisdom and discipline; for understanding words of insight.” Proverbs 1:2. Wisdom is seeing things as God sees them. “For through me your days will be many, and years will be added to your life.” Proverbs 9:11. Obviously, if God can add years, we need to let Him speak into how we balance our time.

The writer of Psalms reminds us that with God, “..a thousand years in your sight are like a day that has just gone by..” Psalm 90:4. If we can get advice from a God who has that perspective, understanding and sight, I have to think balancing our schedules can become a whole new ballgame.

As everything with God, it takes faith and believing. “Listen, my son, accept what I say, and the years of your life will be many.” Proverbs 4:10. The practicality of this means starting each day in communication with Him through the Holy Spirit. Giving Him props and submitting to where He leads us to spend our time is a discipline that can yield hours to your day and make the years of your life more numerous.

God has become a common name accepted in our culture. Jesus is known to his followers but can be divisive to others. The Holy Spirit is more unknown and rarely taught and talked about from the pulpit today. Letting God dictate your pace of play each day requires listening and obedience to the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is critical to your faith and crucial to time management.

Why and how is the Spirit such a vital component to letting God manage your day? For starters, He is the guiding voice in a believer’s head and heart. He is the EXPERT in looking ahead and seeing around the next corner. Jesus vouched for the Spirit to all of His followers. “But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.” John 16:13. I can’t think of a better resume and referral.

Balancing your time and settling into a comfortable pace of play in life might require a few changes in your daily routine. It begins by submitting control of each day to the leading of the Holy Spirit. This requires a relationship with Jesus and getting to know the voice of the Spirit. It isn’t difficult, but it does take a commitment and discipline.

The Holy Spirit gives power, revelation, warnings of things to come, speaks truth, gives hope, renewal, rebirth and gifts from heaven. With these abilities, balancing your life and schedule doesn’t seem far fetched. Your pace of play will never be an issue again.

Certain words have become taboo in our culture. A word can elicit love or animosity and division. Words are gatekeepers to our patience, attention, heart and loyalty. Words can reveal issues and the nature of powers at work. None more so, than the word ‘submission’.

Submission is at the root of the Parkland shootings, the political divisions in our country and the future of our nation. Submission is at the core of why our world was created and why it will be destroyed. Submission is the key to eternity and the balance of your daily activities. In other words, it’s pretty important.

Submission can be a four letter word, a spiritual foundation or a worldly perversion. History is replete with examples of misplaced trust and submission. The dark ages were represented by submission to leaders who lived lavishly at the expense of others. Our nation fought against submitting to a tyrant that wanted taxation without representation. For a long time, women submitted to a government that didn’t allow them to vote or a husband that was abusive. It all boils down to yielding to a superior force or authority. To whom and what do you yield and put first in your life. To what and whom SHOULD you trust and submit?

In 2018, we are rebelling from submission and it is causing chaos. We trust and submit to ourselves first and foremost, but is that the right path? “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil.” Proverbs 3: 5-7. We have put our own understanding above all else. With our rebellion, we are elevating ourselves to deity.

The lack of political trust is well founded, right? Politicians come up with tax schemes that benefit themselves. Political parties pass laws that kill unborn babies, break up families and keep prayer out of our schools. And what’s the Biblical advice? “Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over you as those who must give an account…” Hebrews 13:17. Are you kidding? Submit to people or a party we can’t trust to protect our kids at school? Authority issues cause one more brick to fall out of the wall of submission.

Lack of submitting to leadership has been building since creation. Lucifer was cast down from heaven because his pride wouldn’t let him submit to a greater authority. Adam and Eve submitted to a lie the devil spread about God. Peter gave some advice in the New Testament, “Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every authority instituted among men:… Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king.” 1st Peter 2:13,17. In simple terms, fear God and submit to Him. Then, show respect and submit to every other authority among men. Facebook, Twitter and TV are rife with rantings about a Trump Presidency because there is no longer room in people’s hearts to submit to elected authority. This is a spiritual issue. Look in the mirror.

Folks are trying to unsuccessfully balance their lives between work, jobs, family and friends because they don’t submit to even the most simple leading of the Holy Spirit. Not calling a friend who has been on your mind for 2 weeks. Not applying for the new job someone brought to your attention. Not speaking up when you see a coworker forced into submitting to a sexist boss. This leads to rebellion from an elected President you don’t agree with, talking badly about your boss or not giving financial help to a family member who can’t find a job. When we turn from submitting to the highest authority, the fiber of society breaks down…AND so does our relationship with God.

Christ followers are most at risk. When we ignore the leading of the Holy Spirit we harden our hearts and submit to an authority and power other than God. How much of the contentious atmosphere in our lives and nation stem from a spiritual battle caused by submitting to the same enemy as Adam and Eve? “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and he will draw near to you..” James 4:7-8. Be aware of who you submit to with each word, action and inaction; each tweet, post and email.

The stresses in your world and THE world can be relieved by a return to recognition, fear and submission…in the rightful and ultimate authority of all creation. Mass shootings can be avoided, world peace and balancing the demands of each day can be achieved. Deny your own understanding and submit to the leading of the Holy Spirit in your daily life. The right career path, peace, and joy for each day all start by submitting to the Holy Spirit first thing in the morning, then continuing to submit as He leads all day.

Don’t kid yourself, submission is at the core of our being and our world. We all submit to something and someone.

Adages and acronyms rule the day. OMG, ‘Actions speak louder than words’, LOL, ‘Attitude is everything’, TTYL, ‘Winners train, losers complain’, TGIF, ‘You play the way you practice.’ We love things to be short and sweet. These days, we NEED things to be short and sweet or we don’t pay attention.

We live in a day where careers, relationships and lives are expressed with brevity. Cell phones and technology are blamed for our lack of patience and inability to wait. Truth be told, ‘everything old is new again.’ The deeper truth is that everything is a spiritual issue. The issue behind impatience and a short attention span is a spiritual battle.

The Psalms are full of encouragement to wait and exercise patience. “Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” Psalm 27:14. “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him;..” Psalm 37:7. Popular mentality is if the word ‘wait’ is in the solution, there’s a better answer. Today waiting is portrayed to be a sign of weakness, a lack of control and power and not being confident or decisive. Entrepreneurs flock to opportunities where consumers have to wait for more than mere seconds because they believe a quicker solution is always better. The worldly route to glory and riches is found in speed and convenience. Waiting is old school.

Millennials and Gen X’ers feel the brunt of criticism in regards to wanting it all and wanting it now, but they shouldn’t. Impatience has been around forever and is more a reflection on humanity and not how old we are. In this day of instant data and analysis, why did God choose to send His Son in the relative stone age? It’s not as if God doesn’t understand the value of time, but He sees and uses it differently. “…With the Lord a day is like a thousand years and a thousand years are like a day…Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” 2 Peter 3:8-9. God assigns a greater value to patience and waiting. But, why?

Time is a gift given to us FROM God. In turn, when we give it to someone or something else, it shows the value we assign to that person or activity. How we give our time shows the submission of ourselves and our valuable asset. No one reads a long paragraph much less a long blog or novel. The lie is that everything can be understood and experienced in a condensed version. God may be talked about in a tweet, but He is found and known in the waiting.

The LAST thing Jesus ever said involved waiting. “‘Do not leave Jerusalem, but wait for the gift my Father promised, which you have heard me speak about.'” Acts 1:4. God gave the early Christians a gift that allowed them to do greater things than Christ himself, but, they had to wait for it. Jesus was teaching believers to learn the importance of patience and waiting. How long do you wait for a Google search or the ATM to read your debit card? Have you heard the adage, ‘good things come to those who wait’? Do you believe it? Do you practice it?

So, why does everything need to be done so quickly these days? The submission of your time is what it takes to KNOW God, not know OF Him. Next time you get bummed because you’ve been in a taxing job for 4-5 years, remember Abraham was blessed after he waited 25 years for a baby. Noah saved humanity by building a boat that took about 100 years. The world battles against God and does not want you to wait on Him or anything. The world is training you to be impatient and wait on nothing and no one. ‘I want it all and I want it now’ is a lifestyle that can lead to trouble. The Biblical adage is, ‘lust of the flesh’, LOTF.

Judgement is not a popular word, but it is coming. Christ “..will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting on him.” Hebrews 9:28. If popular culture can train us to look for and gain our rewards without having to wait, many will miss salvation.

I believe patience and waiting are a spiritual discipline that we need to return to. Not just for a weekend but as a lifestyle. Yes, it requires a sacrifice of your self and your time. But, “you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.” 1 Peter 2:5. Waiting and the giving of your time can be a spiritual sacrifice. Build the house you want to live in.

Next time you are tempted to turn from something because it will take an extra minute or two, don’t. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you and the use of your time. View your time as a spiritual sacrifice, then WFI, ‘wait for it.’

In musical notation, a caesura is a break in the music. In conversation, a caesura is a pause or an interruption that gives way for silence. If you want to hear and feel the power of a small dose of silence, listen to Phil Collins timeless hit, In the Air Tonight. Right before the infamous drum solo there is a pause that sets up the sound you will never forget. Science has shown that such intervals are what generate intense neural activity. The contrast of brief silence stirs our senses. It is in the silence where ALL of our senses are engaged and we become alive.

Silence is one of the most valuable assets we possess and everyone is after it. Proof lies in the technology we use for convenience and the data that is so invaluably associated with it. What we browse, how we communicate, when and where we are located. The data that reveals how we spend our time and what occupies our minds is all for the purpose of being able to fill the silence with a desired message. There is a battle for your silence but no one talks about it.

Why is silence so valuable? In the Bible, God is in the silence. God told Elijah to go out and stand on a mountain and be in His presence. “Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake came a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.” 1 Kings 19:11-12. Elijah heard the voice of God in the quiet, in the caesura, in the silence.

Many believe silence is a luxury. I believe silence is a gift from God designed to bridge the gap between heaven and earth. Silence prepares us and is the environment where we become fully engaged. “Engaged for what?” you may ask. That’s the great thing about silence. It’s unique and different for everyone because it is the space that allows us to hear from our Creator. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11. If silence allows us to hear those plans, we all need more of it.

If you are intrigued and attracted to silence, let me add a note of caution. Everything in and of this world will fight for your silence and against the truth that lies therein. There is no fake news in the solitude that comes with silence. There is noise that battles against the silence but not in the silence. God is in the silence. He reminds us in blunt terms. “He says, ‘Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.'” Psalm 46:10. In the book of Genesis and elsewhere in the Bible, the Holy Spirit is referred to as a wind and a breath. Sound is air in motion. The voice of God is sound itself, everything else is just noise.

In the book of Revelation there is a scroll that reveals what will occur before and during Christ’s second coming. This scroll has seven seals and the 7th seal represents both the wrath of the Lamb and the mercy of God. When the 7th and last seal is opened, guess what follows. “When he opened the seventh seal, there was silence in heaven for about half an hour.” Revelation 8:1. Silence gets our attention, prepares and allows us to hear the voice of God.

Songs have been written about silence. Some say silence is golden. YOUR silence is measured, fought for, coveted, packaged for sale and is more valuable than gold. Everything points to the value of silence and that is why the war exists to take it away from you.

Make the effort to hear what’s in your silence. Listen to the sound of your silence.

Millennials and Gen X’ers find themselves trying to build a successful life and career in interesting times. Resumes are submitted to websites and not individuals. Meeting and dating someone doesn’t require personal contact but a text, Snapchat or Instagram account. This generation is building their body of work in life via different means, but I’m afraid with the same potential pitfalls as each generation before them. The pitfall is following the world’s system to prepare your tomorrow. Make sure that your actions today lead to the tomorrow you really want. If success occurs when preparation meets opportunity, what tomorrow are you preparing for today?

My earliest recollection of when it started was the 4th grade. I played Scrooge in the elementary school production and felt the rush of being front and center. A lead-off home run in the top of the first inning in 6th grade. President of the largest club in high school (shout out to Newton County FBLA’ers). President of the University Union at the University of Georgia. The list continued to grow after college graduation. The effect was success and recognition served to grow my resume and reputation. I was raised to believe this is how you build a career and a life. I believed this was the way to prepare for the success I wanted.

Bottom line is that each year the world presented opportunities for there to be more of me. This worked well, felt good and helped me to build a life for my wife and family. Whether serving an individual, a group or a company, I was taught to put others first and serve their needs. Along the way I learned it was a natural occurrence that when following a ‘servant’ protocol and mindset, I gained stature and recognition. Every time my accolades and success increased there was naturally more of me, not less. I was increasing every day and not decreasing. I was preparing for the success I had envisioned.

I am haunted by the life and story of John the Baptist. The whole “He must become greater; I must become less” thing has taken on a new dimension the older I get. My success in life made me greater and is the opposite of what made John the Baptist so great. How great was John the Baptist? Jesus said, “I tell you, among those born of women there is no one greater than John; yet the one who is least in the Kingdom of God is greater than he.” Luke 7:28. John’s life centered on serving the Kingdom of God and not himself or his culture. John spent his life preparing the way for Christ and that defined his success. What kind of success are you preparing for? Do you want greatness?

This is where you can argue that serving the Kingdom doesn’t have to be exclusive of caring for your self and your family….and that sounds good. In hindsight, somewhere along the way, success in life brings more attention to YOU and that is a slippery slope and will make YOU greater. Logically, if YOU become greater, HE doesn’t. When preparing for the future, I believe it is imperative for Christ followers to consciously plan and prepare to BE less with each passing day. When planning for your future, I encourage you to prepare for when and where your future is, not just what it will look like. Prepare for a future not limited to this world.

The earthly path of upward mobility might lead to a bigger house and a second home, but focus on preparing for eternity and not the next 30 years. “Jesus said to them,…’And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or fields for my sake will receive a hundred times as much and will inherit eternal life.'” Matthew 19:29. When preparing for that wedding or a career, remember it’s not today’s pictures or today’s job that matter the most. Less today can mean more tomorrow if you are following the leading of the Holy Spirit. Christ promised the return would be a hundred times whatever you give up here, for Him.

The ways of this world are not the ways of God. With Him there is no fear or anxiety. As a Millenial or Gen X’er looking ahead and seeing your needs and wants in the future you are planning, remember the words in red. “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Matthew 6:33. The One who gives and the One who rewards doesn’t advise the traditional worldly preparation for success. As a believer, prepare to seek Him more every day, give HIM more control and become less in the process. If you do otherwise, YOU might become greater but HE will become less. Is that what you want? Is that the future you are preparing for yourself?

The world will provide opportunities to build a life and a future for yourself. God will provide opportunities for a life that will serve Him and build an eternity for yourself. Prepare accordingly. Prepare for the right kind of success and what it brings.